Closing the series: choosing a different kind of strength
Ilona Janssen Groesbeek Ilona Janssen Groesbeek

Closing the series: choosing a different kind of strength

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This closing reflection brings the series together by examining how leadership is shaped less by individual intention and more by the behaviours organisations consistently reward. It invites leaders and organisations to reconsider what strength looks like in complex contexts, and what kind of leadership is truly needed going forward.

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3. What organisations unknowingly reward — and how that shapes leadership behaviour
Ilona Janssen Groesbeek Ilona Janssen Groesbeek

3. What organisations unknowingly reward — and how that shapes leadership behaviour

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What organisations unknowingly reward

This blog examines how organisational reward systems, recruitment, and promotion practices shape leadership behaviour. It highlights how a preference for speed and certainty often filters out leaders who can work with complexity and uncertainty—capabilities that are increasingly essential in a VUCA environment.

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2. Humility and power: where leadership often goes wrong
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2. Humility and power: where leadership often goes wrong

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Humility and power

This blog explores the tension between humility and power in leadership roles, particularly under pressure. It looks at how expectations to be decisive can push leaders—especially those new in role—towards performative certainty, and how staying grounded in humility enables stronger judgment and authority when it matters most.

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1. Humility: the leadership strength we still underestimate
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1. Humility: the leadership strength we still underestimate

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Humility as strength, not weakness

This blog explores humility as a core leadership capacity rather than a personal trait. It examines why humility is often misunderstood as weakness, and how reality-based leadership—grounded in accuracy, openness, and self-awareness—creates stronger judgment, trust, and decision-making in complex contexts.

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Creating psychological safety in teams
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Creating psychological safety in teams

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This blog explores how to create psychological safety within teams. It offers concrete behaviours leaders can use to foster a safe, open working environment, such as asking open questions, giving positive feedback, and encouraging dialogue. It also highlights the importance of staying calm and setting clear boundaries, even in difficult conversations.

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Resilient teams through compassionate leadership
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Resilient teams through compassionate leadership

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This blog explores the importance of compassionate leadership as a key factor in building resilient teams. Leaders who lead with compassion create a safe working environment where collaboration and personal growth take centre stage. It gives team members the space to develop, make mistakes, and take responsibility, contributing to both individual and collective success.

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Behaviour change: Small steps, Big results
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Behaviour change: Small steps, Big results

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This blog explores how small, achievable habits can lead to significant behavioural change. By working in small steps, shaping the environment to make desired behaviour easier, and applying positive reinforcement, sustainable change becomes possible. Behaviour change does not have to be overwhelming — it is about consistency, reflection, and reinforcing what works.

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The Power of Honest Dialogue in Leadership
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The Power of Honest Dialogue in Leadership

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Leadership is not only about making decisions, but also about engaging in conversations that are difficult or uncomfortable. Courageous conversations create space for authentic communication, understanding, and deeper connections within teams and organisations.

But how do you start such a conversation? What makes it courageous, and how can you communicate effectively even when the topics are difficult?

In my latest blog post, I share five key guidelines for engaging in courageous conversations — from creating a safe space to using silence effectively. It is not only about what you say, but about how you create the conditions for genuine dialogue and vulnerability.

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